The adventure that you're ready for is the one that you get. What's sad about that, let's. Make it great.
Even MLK, he stepped out of his hotel room and onto the balcony, for a private cigarette, after sex with a woman who wasn't his wife, (so what?) (does that make him) when they shot him in the heart. The sex and the death are unrelated. Except both were just an excuse, maybe even a wish, to be saved.
